Dear AV and Min, I am really having a hard time deciding what I really want in my romantic life. I have a few eligible bachelors, but I don't know if I should let them all take me out on a date or just choose one. What if the date goes bad or they're a weirdo? Should I just let them all take me out and finally make my choice? Please help me out - thanks!
Hi, thank you for sharing with us. You can always do a one-on-one date for each of them and then make your decision later. You will choose the one that you think suits you best or who you like best. If the date ever goes bad, it is not your fault, it is just a sign that you guys didn’t share the same spirit, didn’t have the same vibe. If you never try, you’ll never know so just go for it. If they end up being a weirdo then they are not your type. You can also compare them, take a deeper look at how they treat you, how they act, are they a gentleman, how they treat the people around them, how they treat the waitress/waiter, their behavior, and many more. The most important thing is it’s always better to have/date/marry someone who loves you than someone you love.